Author Interview-Laura Moncrief

Laura Moncrief

Laura Moncrief

Laura Lee Moncrief is a native Nebraskan who has lived in Virginia, Colorado, Montana, and Georgia. A stay-at-home mother for 18 years, at age 43, Laura went back to college to finish her education.  She earned her Bachelor of Science degree in Consumer Science and Finance, graduating with high distinction from the University of Nebraska-Lincoln in 1991. Upon graduating, Laura was self-employed as an American Express Financial Advisor for seven years and then investigated security clearances for the federal government for the next three years. Laura  also taught senior finance classes at her alma mater for two years before retiring. Today, Laura volunteers her time at her church, plays pickleball three times a week, and, of course, continues to travel all over the world. She is the published author of six genealogy books and two about the early pioneers of Divide and Woodland Park, Colorado. Laura, mother of three daughters, grandmother of seven and great-grandmother of two, resides in Arizona … at least for now.

Marina Raydun: Decluttering is one of my life’s goals. I love the concept of doing the same with luggage. What inspired you to write a book on the subject?

Laura Moncrief: I am always cleaning out non-essentials in my home and life. My daughter actually inspired me to write this book just before I was leaving on a trip to Eastern Europe. I typed up the basic book in 2 days before I left on the trip.

MR: You have traveled to over 70 countries! I’m not even going to hide it—I am jealous! Have you been able to pick up any fun reads along the way?

LM: I love history! So my primary focus while traveling is to feel the history and learn about it. Therefore, I try to take trips where I want to understand more about the people and the region. I surround myself with locals that can express this to me better than any book (which may be biased).

MR: Besides reading, how do you pass the time while up in the air?

LM: I have a problem with trying to sleep on planes. It is my least favorite part of the trip so if anyone has suggestions, help!

MR: What is your favorite genre to read?

LM: I read everything my daughter writes from Biblical fiction to thrillers. I like historical fiction best.

MR: You went back to college to finish your degree in your 40s. Your drive is enviable. What was your favorite subject in school as an adult?

LM: History was definitely my favorite.  Although I knew I would not be able to financially take care of my self and daughter with a degree in history, so I chose finance.

MR: You are pretty passionate about genealogy! Just the idea of all that research makes me giddy. Have you ever considered writing a novel based on some of your findings?

LM: I have spent (misspent?) 40 years researching my family histories as well as for other folks. Part of that was travel to the various places (Scotland, England, Germany, Czech, and cemeteries and courthouses in dozens of states). It was a good reason to go to some out-of-the-way town in some backwater part of a state. Yes, I have lots of stories about these research trips and my daughter mentioned I might do a book about these. So stay tuned….

MR: If you could have drinks with any person, living or dead, who would it be? Why?

LM: I don’t usually drink alcohol but I do like my soda. I have never thought of that so will have to do some thinking on your question.

MR: What are you currently reading?

LM: I am currently reading up to update myself on financial things as I am going to write a small book for women about how to obtain financial independence.

MR: What do you think about when you’re alone in your car?

LM: I am always thinking about what I am researching or writing. I keep paper and pen handy and make notes at stop signs.

 

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2019 in 17 Books

For some (delusional) reason, I thought I’d read more 2019 than I actually had. But I checked and rechecked my Goodreads/Audible/Kindle apps and the verdict remains the same—a grand total of 17. Below are tiniest of reviews and recommendations. Please tell me if you read any of these and if our opinions are in agreement. Happy Reading!

MY TOP PICK

My favorite by far this year was All the Rivers. I’ve spoken about this at length to anyone who would and wouldn’t listen. It left me breathless. I am not exaggerating when I say that, at times, I felt as if my sternum would snap in two from all the air I’d apparently been holding without the needed release. Something about the writing and the subject matter reached me on a level much deeper than I’d previously thought possible. I don’t cry at books (not physical tears, anyway), but I did here. A brave work. I recommend it oh so highly.

For my least favorite…read on.

Let’s see what else I read this year:

  1. Second Person Singular: This was the first book written by an Israeli-Palestinian author for me. I’ve blogged about it at the time (you can read my brief review here). I learned a great amount from reading this novel—as in genuinely learned. I don’t remember the last time I walked away having truly learned something about the real world from a work of fiction. The writing is clear and precise, despite having been translated from Hebrew. I would definitely recommend this one to anyone but especially to those with interest in the seventy-something year old conflict.

  2. American Like Me: I was so excited for this book to finally come out! I love immigration stories, and most of my own writing revolves around immigration in some way. I first reviewed the book when I finished reading it (you can read it here), and for the most part, I loved it because everyone’s essay illustrated how close our experiences really are underneath it all. Those early days of being the new kid in a place where everyone speaks a language you don’t recognize... The only part that was a let down for me was the fact that there was not a single Jewish voice in the entire anthology (and the only Arab one was that of a well-recognized anti-Semite). It’s a gaping editorial oversight and a disappointing one at that. I expected better of America Ferrera. Where was Natalie Portman? Mila Kunis? Tony Shalhoub, Rami Malek? Other than that—great book.

  3. The Girl at the Border. A book with a complex and complicated plot but some lovely, flowing language. The settings were like paintings, the dialogues came off the page. A solid 4-star review from me. See my full review here.

  4. Anonymous Girl. This book suffered from only one ailment, as far as I am concerned—it did not live up to the incredibly high standard of its predecessor—The Wife Between Us. The standard is unfair but neither is life. The book never truly came together for me. It seemed cliché and flat, but again, I have to ask myself if I would feel the same had I read it before I read the authors’ first book. Read my slightly longer take on the matter here.

  5. Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine. What a breath of fresh air, Eleanor was! We read this in my book club and I’m so thankful. It was such a breath of fresh air! Did I say that already? Anyway, the protagonist has zero tolerance for society’s bullshit and it’s just precious. Highly recommend.

  6. The Broken Girls is a title I’ve had on my Kindle for literal years. I’m not sure why it took me so long to finally read it but I’m glad I did. A captivating mystery with just enough of that supernatural element to ring believable. Recommend.

  7. The Buried: An Archeology of the Egyptian Revolution is a title I was instinctively drawn to. I don’t read as much non-fiction as a I should. There is no tangible reason for it; I just find a better escape in fiction. A fascinating, educational read. A great insight as to Egyptian culture, history, and people.

  8. I’ll Never Tell is a book I had on my list of summer books. It was a fun, easy mystery read. I enjoyed the multiple POVs, including the voice of the victim. For someone who’s never been to a sleep-away camp I sure do gravitate toward books set in those.

  9. Searching for Sylvie Lee..family saga, suspense, immigrant lit—I’m not sure which description suits this title best. A little gray and wallowing but a fascinating novel nonetheless.

  10. Lock Every Door is written by an author who goes by the pen name of Riley Sager. I won’t spoil the rest (though merely mentioning this is spoiler enough, I realize). It’s a thriller with some delicious twists and I am thankful for my little book club for having voted for it as one of our official selections.

  11. Dancing Arabs is not as good as Second Person Singular, in my opinion. More like a collection of anecdotes than a novel, there is too much self-pity and wallowing in it for my taste. On the other hand, the book made me think. And feel! And I found myself thinking about it (and feeling!) for days on end when I was finished, so at the end of the day, I highly recommend it.

  12. The Hypnotist’s Love Story is the first Liane Moriarty novel I read this year. Sometimes you just need a little Liane. Relatable and satisfying, this is one of my favorite novels by Liane.

  13. Truly Madly Guilty is the last of Liane’s novel for me. I am finally caught up and need her to hurry up and turn out more! This one is simultaneously heartbreaking and heartwarming. Only Ms. Moriarty is capable of this! A little long but satisfying.

  14. Final Girls is officially my favorite thriller! Riley Sager is a genius! Sure, I saw some red herrings along the way but no way in hell did I anticipate the final twists. Can’t wait to read more by Sager.

  15. The Woman in Cabin 10 is a book I kept seeing on displays at a local Barnes & Noble for months. It intrigued me so I made an impulse purchase. My verdict: a good suspenseful read. A solid beach read (and not because the action takes place on a cruise ship).

  16. One Day in December sure did make a splash, didn’t it. I saw it recommended by everyone, including Reese Witherspoon, who gushed about this one like no tomorrow. All I can say is meh. I honestly wanted so much to like this one but alas, it wasn’t meant to be. Perhaps it would work better as a TV show because it’s just way too long and dragged out as a novel. It’s a cute premise but such a long ride through the years and relationships becomes cumbersome (at least in this title). It’s sweet and cute, and it’s well-written, sure, but once you’re done, you forget al about it. At least I did. 3 stars.

    Reading Goals: 20 titles. Let’s do this!

Author Interview Series-Dwayne Clayden

Dwayne Clayden

Dwayne Clayden

Dwayne Clayden combines his knowledge and experience as a police officer and paramedic to write realistic crime thrillers.

Crisis Point, Dwayne’s first novel, was a finalist for the 2015 Crime Writers of Canada, Arthur Ellis Awards.

OutlawMC and Wolfman is Back are the second and third novels in the Brad Coulter Series.

The Brad Coulter will continue in 2020.

In his 40 year career, Dwayne served as a police officer, paramedic, tactical paramedic, firefighter, emergency medical services (EMS) chief, educator, and academic chair.

Dwayne is a popular speaker at conferences and to writing groups presenting on realistic police, medical, and paramedic procedures.

The co-author of four paramedic textbooks, he has spoken internationally at EMS conferences for the past three decades.

Marina Raydun: Your background goes hand in hand with your genre.  How helpful are real life experiences in setting up fictional scenarios?

Dwayne Clayden: Having worked as a police officer and paramedic gives me a unique view of what really happens. I can bring that reality to the pages of my novels. I show the relationships between partners – you spend ten hours or more a day together and know where your partner’s ‘hot’ buttons are and you push it often.

I include the paramedics as characters in each novel. You get to know them and read about them in action – what they do responding to the situation, what care they provide on scene and on the way to the hospital as well as some of the hospital care. This is a perspective I have not seen in other police procedural/thriller novels.

All my characters are mixtures of a number of cops and paramedics I worked with. I took idiosyncrasies from several people and molded them into a character. 

My cop and paramedic friends try to guess who each character is in real life. Sometimes they recognize a couple of quirks, but then see the quirks of someone else in that character too.

One ‘real’ character in the novels is Lobo, a German Shephard. When I was a twenty year-old rookie police officer with a big gun and the thin cheesy moustache, I needed a police dog too. I rescued Lobo from the pound and he has a role in all the novels.

MR: What do you owe real life people upon whom you base your characters? 

DC: There are two “real life” characters in my novels. In Outlaw MC, I introduced a Sergeant in the Identification Division, Bill Surgeon. He was a police academy classmate and provides me with the accurate information on fingerprints, ballistics,  and everything Ident and Forensics. He’s a great friend so I asked if I could use his name as the character. He agreed, but he now thinks I need to do a series about a handsome, brilliant, and charismatic Ident Sergeant.

The second is another classmate, Randy Ames. Randy had always wanted to be a sniper. He first appears in Outlaw MC and will return in novel four, the working title is Sniper. 

MR: What’s the most difficult part about writing characters from the opposite sex? 

DC: Everything! Luckily I have female beta readers. I worked with many female cops and paramedics and used them to create realistic characters readers could identify with. My beta readers always keep me in line!

MR: Have you read anything that made you feel differently about fiction?

DC: Stephen wrote an excellent book called, “On Writing.” It is brilliant. He shares his thoughts on writing, his struggles, his rejections, his writing routine, and many practical tips for writers. I have read it at least five times. 

MR: What is your favorite genre to read?

DC: I like a lot of genres, but my favorite would be police procedurals and thrillers – Michael Connelly, John Sandford and Robert B Parker. But I have read everything John Grishom, Ken Follett, Jeffrey Archer, Vince Flynn, and Lee Child have written. I have also read Outlander, Game of Thrones and James Rollins.

MR: What are you currently reading?

DC: I am reading an FBI profiler series by Steven James and the protagonist Patrick Bowers. I am on the second novel, “The Pawn.” When I find a new author I tend to binge read several novels in a row.

I have asked Santa for the newest Michael Connelly, Lee Child, John Sandford and John Grishom novels.

MR: Is there a book that changed your life? 

DC: Joseph Wambaugh changed my life in couple of ways. First, in 1971, he wrote “The New Centurions,” about policing in Los Angeles and told it like it was. He didn’t hold anything back. It was a big change to the sanitized police shows of the early 70s. I felt like I was there on the streets of LA as I read “The New Centurions.” It got me thinking about a career in policing. I wanted to be a cop – a New Centurion.

MR: Is there a book that people might be surprised to learn you love?

DC:  “The Art of Racing in the Rain,” by Garth Stein.

All Mitch Albom’s novels.

MR: Are there any books you’ve read over and over again?

DC:  I’ve reread early Joseph Wambaugh: The New Centurions, The Blue Night, The Black Marble, The Onion Field. Robert B Parker’s Series “Jesse Stone.” Michael Connelly’s Bosch Series.

MR: What do you think about when you’re alone in your car?

DC: About how many traffic tickets I could write!! When I was a cop, I hated writing traffic tickets. Now I count how many I could write!

But you probably want to know if I think about writing. I think about writing 24/7. Whether working through a plot thread I’m having trouble with, or chapters that just aren’t coming together or thinking of new novel ideas.

Earlier this year I was struggling with the last chapters of Wolfman and had been thinking about it for weeks. On the flight home from Las Vegas it suddenly came to me. I wrote longhand for three hours. That is the ending I kept in the novel. So, driving, eating, flying, I’m thinking about novels.

To learn more about Dwayne, please visit the following:

DwayneClayden.com

e-mail: dwayneclayden@gmail.com

Facebook:     DwayneClaydenAuthor

LinkedIn:       dwayneclayden

Twitter:           @DwayneClayden

Author Interview Series-Liz Butcher

Liz Butcher

Liz Butcher

Liz Butcher resides in Australia, with her husband, daughter, and their two cats. She’s a self-confessed nerd with a BA in psychology and an insatiable fascination for learning. Liz has published a number of short stories in anthologies and has released her own collection, After Dark, in 2018. Her novel, Fates’ Fury is set for release, September, 2019.

Marina Raydun: I have to ask—is Liz Butcher your real name or your penname? Seems like a perfect last name for the genre!

Liz Butcher: It’s my real name – my married name! My husband jokes that I only married him for the surname, haha!

MR: I love that you write short stories. What do you find more challenging—writing full length novels or short stories?

LB: I think both can have their challenges. For me, the challenge in moving from short stories to novels was ensuring I developed every aspect.

MR: What is your process like? Are your outlines tedious or are you more of an intuitive author who feels her way through the plot?

LB: I’m an extremely tedious and manual plotter. I start with writing down the general storyline, then I write scenes I envision on cards or post-it’s and move them around, adding to them until I have my story. Next I write them out on pieces of paper divided into squares. It sounds crazy, but it works for me. It’s how I get the plot completely embedded in my mind.

MR: What is your research process like?

LB: Not as concise as I would like. I have a terrible habit of going off on a random search tangent every time I come across some interesting tidbit. I end up finding myself researching things completely unrelated to my work. So, I need to work on that!

MR: How did publishing your first book change your writing process?

LB: I don’t think it’s changed, at least not so far. I think it’s just given me confidence that my processes work for me.

MR: What’s the best and worst book review you’ve ever received?

LB: The best review I’ve received is by Grady Harp, from the San Francisco Review of Books. He said “…This is one impressive debut from an obviously gifted artist who knows how to blend human drama with metaphysical fantasy and mythology to create a splendidly unique novel with visceral force…” That blew me away! I’ve been fortunate so far, in that I haven’t received a bad review—but I’m sure it will happen eventually!

MR: What other authors are you friends with, and how do they help you become a better writer?

LB: Kathrin Hutson is both friend and mentor. I started working with her a few years ago as my editor, and we just hit it off. She’s a crazy talented writer of dark fantasy and lgbt fiction. As an editor, she’s helped my writing improve in leaps and bounds and she’s absolutely helped me become a better a writer. The writing community is fantastic, especially across Twitter. I’ve become friends with so many talented writers and everyone’s very supportive of each other. Luke West, Jaidis Shaw, Ace Antonio Hall, Gina A. Watson, Lisette Brody & Stacey Jaine McIntosh have all been wonderfully encouraging since the start.

MR: What book do you wish you had written?

LB: The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein. I’ve loved that book since I was a little girl.

MR: If you could cast your characters in a Hollywood adaption of your book, who would play your characters?

LB: This is always such a fun question! Fates’ Fury has too many characters to list them all, but for some of the main characters, this is who I’d cast:

Jonah Sands – Max Irons

Ava Carter – Natalie Portman

Tristan Carter – James Franco

Zeus – Eric Bana

Isis – Zoe Saldana

Enki – Naveen Andrews

Hades – Jared Leto

Charon – Paul Bettany

Alex – Tom Hanks

Mallory – Gillian Anderson

I can dream, right?

MR: Is there a book that people might be surprised to learn you love?

LB: All the Harry Potter books. I’m a huge Potterhead!

Learn more about Liz Butcher here:

Website: https://lizbutcherauthor.wixsite.com/lizbutcher

Twitter: https://twitter.com/lunaloveliz

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lunaloveliz/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Liz-Butcher-1394868604152823/

Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/13845425.Liz_Butcher

Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com.au/lizbutcherauthor/

Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B00X6XN5O6

Author Interview Series-McKensie Stewart (Author of Shattered: An Emily Graham Novel)

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McKensie Stewart is a native of Columbia, South Carolina where she attended Columbia College. Currently, she is an educator, fictional novelist and entrepreneur living in Charlotte, North Carolina. McKensie enjoys long walks on the beach with her Yorkshire Terrier, Jewel, when she isn’t terrifying and romancing her readers. Presently, she is working on her next novel.

Marina Raydun: How old were you when you wrote your very first work of fiction?

McKensie Stewart: Actually, I wrote my first book 2 years ago so well into my 40’s which proves you are never too old to try something new.

MR: If you could tell your younger writing self-anything, what would it be?

MS: I didn’t know I had a gift to write so I would say if you want to write, try it and see where your imagination takes you.

MR: What does literary success look like to you?

MS: Selling books.  I measure success on selling books and to tell my story in the number of books I write.

MR: What do you owe real life people upon whom you base your characters?

MS: All the characters in my books are totally made up so they aren’t based on anyone.  I am blessed to have an imagination to create the characters to be believable and people are drawn to them.

MR: What’s the most difficult part about writing characters from the opposite sex?

MS: I don’t see writing a character of an opposite sex as a challenge I write about what the person is doing, and the sex doesn’t matter.

MR: What did you edit out of your book?

MS: I only edit the words/sentences that turn the reader away from understanding or following the story.  I don’t want to do more telling that will bore the reader.

MR: What’s the best and worst book review you’ve ever received?

MS: I continue to try to receive reviews, so I have a balance of feedback.  So, the answer is I haven’t received a negative book review.

MR: If you could cast your characters in a Hollywood adaption of your book, who would play your characters? 

MS: Because of how evil Meryl Streep character played in Big Little Lies, Mary Louise Wright, hands down she would play Kyndall.  I love Meryl Streep in this role.

MR: What is your favorite genre to read?

MS: It is easier to tell you what I don’t like to read—it is Sci-Fi.

MR: Are there any books you’ve read over and over again? 

MS: I can ready anything James Patterson.

To learn more about McKensie Stewart, please visit: www.McKensieStewart.com

For McKensie Stewart’s books, visit: https://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=shattered+an+emily+graham+novel

 

From McKensie Stewart:
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Author Interview Series-Bruce Olav Solheim

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Bruce Olav Solheim was born in Seattle, Washington, to Norwegian immigrant parents. Bruce was the first person in his family to go to college. He served for six years in the US Army as a jail guard and later as a warrant officer helicopter pilot, and is a disabled veteran. Bruce earned his Ph.D. in history from Bowling Green State University in 1993. Bruce is a distinguished professor of history at Citrus College in Glendora, California. He was a Fulbright Professor in 2003 at the University of Tromsø in northern Norway. Bruce has published eight books and has written ten plays, two of which have been produced. He is married to Ginger and has four children and a grandson. Bruce has just published his second paranormal book, Timeless Deja Vu: A Paranormal Personal History. Bruce’s mother was psychic and introduced him to the magical realm. His first paranormal experience took place in northern Norway in 1962 when he was four years old. Bruce took a parapsychology class while he was stationed in West Germany in 1979 and has wanted to write about his experiences ever since. He has continued to have paranormal experiences throughout his life and has developed advanced mediumship capabilities. It was only three years ago that Bruce had a spiritual awakening after a vision and communication with his departed close friend Gene that Bruce decided to publish his paranormal stories and overcome his fear of being rejected and ridiculed by his peers and the college administration. Bruce studies quantum theory and has developed a model that may help explain our quantum reality, ghosts, reincarnation, alien contact, and more. He is interested in all esoterica and oddities. Bruce teaches a Paranormal Personal History course at Citrus College and has his own radio program.​ He is also an associate member of the Parapsychological Association.

Marina Raydun: Your bibliography (and biography!) is most impressive. And you teach a course called Paranormal Personal History. Talk to us a little bit about writing about paranormal activity?

Bruce Olav Solheim: I always feel compelled to write something. This drive is usually based on some issue or problem in the world. I think that we are all paranormal beings. The paranormal is actually normal and the supernatural is actually natural. I want to help people realize their own power and not fear death. Fearing death causes us not to truly live. I have been fascinated by the paranormal since age four which was when I had my first experience.

MR: Are teaching and writing related for you? Does one inspire the other?

BOS: Yes. They are both forums for learning. Teachers learn as much as students. As artist Paul Klee once said, it is the teacher that should pay the tuition not the student. I love teaching and I love writing. I share my writing with my students and welcome their feedback.

MR: You also write plays. What compels you to write in this medium?

BOS: My first play was called the Bronze Star. It was based on a true story of my friend Carl who committed suicide in 2002. Every day, 22 American veterans commit suicide. That was the problem that need to be addressed and I did so through my friend Carl’s story. There was no other way to tell his story. I had a vision one day of Carl in Vietnam and that ended up being the opening of the play.

MR: Is there one topic you would never write about as an author?

BOS: I would never say never because you never know.

MR: How did growing up in an immigrant household affect your writing and your work ethic?

BOS: It is who I am. I am of divided heart. I love Norway and I love the United States. I appreciate the struggles that immigrants face because I know what my parents faced. They were hard workers. They came to America from Norway after WWII where they lived under Nazi occupation. They inspire and motivate me everyday even though they have both passed on from this world.

MR: You are a veteran and do a lot for fellow veterans. In fact, you co-founded Boots to Books program at Citrus College in California—a program for recently returned veterans. How central is writing and reading to this program?

BOS: Every day we should get up and do something to help alleviate suffering in the world. Veterans are suffering. Helping them transition was the right thing to do. I got veterans to be involved with my plays and they helped the other actors understand the issues of war and peace and what that really means. I encourage veterans to express themselves in any way that they can: writing, art, spoken word, community service. We all need a mission, and veterans especially so.

MR: What’s the best and worst book review you’ve ever received?

BOS: I have been lucky, no bad reviews. I have had people tell me that they can’t read my paranormal books because they are too scary. Some nice reviews have encouraged me to keep sharing my personal stories because they can relate to the issues that I have faced. To know that I have helped in some small way is a tremendous reward.

MR: If you could have drinks with any person, living or dead, who would it be?

BOS: Although I don’t drink, Mark Twain. He is fascinating to me.

MR: What do you think about when you’re alone driving in your car?

BOS: Everything, that is why I must be careful. I often miss my exit on the freeway or drive

somewhere by autopilot. My mind is rarely quiet or without imagery.

MR: What are you currently reading?

BOS: I usually read five or six books at a time:

Chosen by Yvonne Smith, The PK Man by Jeffrey Mishlove, Identified Flying

Objects by Michael Masters, The Will of a Wildflower by Pegi Robinson, Short

Stories by Red Elk.

Author Interview Series-Marijo Russell O’Grady

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Marijo Russell O’Grady hails from Western New York, Chautauqua County. She received her Bachelor of Science (1983) and Master of Science (1985) from Buffalo State College in Art Education with a Concentration in Art Therapy. She worked in residential life during her undergraduate and graduate tenure at Buffalo State College. Marijo worked at North Adams State College, now known as Massachusetts College of Liberal Arts, as a Residence Director, then moved to Rivier College in Nashua, N.H.as the Director of Student Activities/Assistant Director of Residents. She moved to NYC in 1989 and began a Ph.D. program in Higher Education Administration at New York University, while working full time in Housing and Residential Life, as the Coordinator of Residential Student Development. Her dissertation was centered around racial identity theory and first year African American students at a predominantly White institutions and completed her doctorate in 1999.

Marijo has served as the Associate Vice President/Dean for Students at the New York City campus of Pace University, in New York City since June 1998. She oversees the areas of Student Development and Campus Activities, Housing and Residential Life, Counseling Services including accessibility and wellness, Multicultural Affairs, LGBTQA & Social Justice, Sexual Assault Education and Prevention, Judicial and Compliance, Summer Conferences, and OASIS, a college support program for students on the autism spectrum. In addition, she serves on their Scientific Review board for external researchers related to health and wellness the World Trade Center Health Registry (WTCHR) for the NYC Department of Health and Mental Hygiene. She also serves on the NASPA Region II Advisory Board and is the NYC Metropolitan representative and former chair of the Graduate and New Professionals committee and Careers in Student Affairs. She assists with the Downtown Little League’s Challenger team, assisting children with special needs, playing ball. In the past, she served on the Board of Directors and Secretary for the Downtown Little League and had served on the School Leadership Teams for PS 234 and PS 126 in lower Manhattan. Additionally, she is a member of the Liberty Community Gardens. Lastly, she is the principal owner of www.innovativecollegesolutions.com.

In 2012, she was recipient of the “Top 100 Irish Educators” award by the Irish Voice. She was awarded the Jefferson Award for Public Service in 2016 (the Noble prize for community service). She is married to an Art Professor and has a 19 year old son. They reside in lower Manhattan.

Marina Raydun: Having started in 1998, you were already the Associate Vice President and Dean for Students at Pace University (located in downtown Manhattan) during 9/11. It was a terrifying time for everyone. How did that experience move you to co-author Crisis, Compassion, and Resiliency in Student Affairs: Using Triage Practices to Foster Well-Being?

Marijo Russel O’Grady: I began my role in 1998 as the Dean for Students at Pace University’s NYC campus (and later was promoted). 9/11 was a terrifying experience in general, coupling that as a resident of downtown with a 2 year old, and as a leader at the closest university to WTC. This experience has had a long lasting impact on me and my family and my university. The idea for the book was something I had long considered, given, I often felt my life was triage. Katie Treadwell, my co-author was in her doctoral program and asked to interview me about my 9/11 experience. She was writing her dissertation about leaders in higher education and their crisis response and experiences. I told her the first day I met her that we should write this book. It was something we both felt we needed to do and were committed to assisting leaders on this topic.

MR: What did the process of co-writing this book look like? Did you collaborate, read each other’s chapters?

MRO: Katie and I mapped out the chapters and what we thought was the best direction and content for the book. We knew the chapters we each wanted to write and the message we wanted to convey. We then reached out to colleagues in the field to write other chapters. We collaborated on our chapters and edited one another’s writing. We did the same with the other chapters, continuing to edit to the final manuscript. We had originally thought we would look for publishers, and then felt we should first propose the book to our professional organization, the National Association of Student Personnel Administrators (NASPA) and we were accepted. NASPA staff also did the final editing, collaborating with Kate and I.

MR: How did publishing this book change your writing process?

MRO: In terms of my writing process, I really started with writing from my heart to tell my story and to provide best practices on crisis management (I have handled many crises throughout my career, but 9/11 was the most daunting). I then continued to refine my writing and gained valuable experience in terms of editing other’s work. I am not always the best writer, since I am used to writing memos (LOL), but am very proud of this book.

MR: You work with teenagers and young adults. Do you ever get book recommendations from them? What is your favorite genre to read?

MRO: I love working with young adults and sometimes do get book recommendations from my students. Most often, I am advising them on some great reads. I love to read, period. Summer is my reading time, but I read throughout the year. I have no favorite genre---love cooking, love psychology, love fiction, culture, race and ethnicity, mysteries, leadership and change management, etc.

MR: Is there a book that changed your life?

MRO: I loved Care of the Soul by Thomas More; Song Yet Sung by James McBride; The Coddling of the American Mind by Greg Lukianoff, Jonathan Haid; The Architecture of Happiness by Alain de Botton, Boys Adrift by Dr. Leonard Sax, Invention of Wings by Sue Monk Kidd, to name a few.

MR: Is there a book that people might be surprised to learn you love?

MRO: Anything written by James McBride, and actually, searching and reading aboutmy genealogy. On my dad’s side, we were Russell, Stetson, Buss and Babcock—prominent historical family names.

MR: Are there any books you have read over and over again?

MRO: My own!! HAHA. Song Yet Sung over and over and over! Reframing Organizations by Bolman and Deal!!! Also Lost Horizon and Moveable Feast

MR: Is there an illicit book you had to sneak growing up?

MRO: Growing up in a very small rural western NY town with three sisters, a very protestant father and very Catholic mother, we did not read anything racy. Also, being from a small town, where your great aunt was the librarian and all the neighbors in the town knew every move you make….there was not any opportunity! LOL

MR: You have probably seen it all over the course of your career in the field of student development and student affairs. Have you ever considered writing a novel inspired by some of the many characters you may have come across (yours truly, perhaps…)?

MRO: I have often thought about it, but want to protect the privacy of my students. However, I have some great, unbelievable stories to tell! In addition, I do remember you, Marina, as a student here at Pace!

MR: If you could have drinks with any person, living or dead, who would it be?

MRO: Probably, JFK, since he was such an inspiring and courageous leader, joining at the table I would love Barack Obama to join us (they in my mind, help to unite our country). I also would love to sit again with my grandmother (Elgie Babcock Russell) and hear more about her childhood……. She always believed she was a DAR (Daughter of the American Revolution) and was frustrated she could not prove it… I did. She was an amazing, generous, warm and caring person with a great deal of spunk!

Learn more about Dr. Marijo Russel O’Grady’s book here:

https://www.naspa.org/publications/books/crisis-compassion-and-resiliency

Buy the book here:

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Six Months in Books (2019)

At least reading-wise these past six months have been productive. Here is my humble little list and mini-reviews. If you read anything on here, please share your impressions!

Second Person Singular

A solid 4-star, eye-opening read. This was the first novel written by an Israeli-Palestinian for me. I couldn’t tear away from it.

American Like Me

I’m partial to stories about immigrant experiences. I could not resist this collection of essays. I do have a bit of beef with the editing choices here (more in my review linked above), but on the whole, it’s fascinating read. We’re much more alike than we’re not!

An Anonymous Girl

I’m a huge fan on this writing duo but this wasn’t a favorite. It fell a bit flat and predictable for me, although maybe some of that may have to do with my own high expectations given the authors’ first book.

All the Rivers

Okay, truth time: I cannot stop thinking about this one. So far this year, this has been my absolute favorite. It gripped me tight and won’t let me go. Highly, highly recommend.

A Girl at the Border

Complex and intriguing plot line. At times, it felt a little cluttered to me but, on the other hand, the language was stunning. Recommend.

Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine

An easy read with a hyper relatable protagonist with zero patience for society’s bullshit. Highly recommend.

The Broken Girls

This one sat on my to-read shelf for a while so I’m glad I finally read it. It’s an easy read with just enough of a hint of the paranormal. A very engaging novel.

The Buried: An Archeology of the Egyptian Revolution

I don’t read enough non-fiction. I came across this book by complete accident but wound up being completely engrossed by it. Peter Hessler is a magnificent storyteller. I learned so much! Highly recommend this book if you are at all interested in Egypt and/or politics.

If you happen to read any of these titles, please let me know. I would love to compare notes!

Summer Reading List

Summer! Let’s play free-association: I say, summer, you say—________.

Summers are busy for me. I’m not sure how much reading I will be able to accomplish over the upcoming three months, but I’m nothing if not ambitious. Below is a list I compiled of the promised hottest summer reads. Let’s see how many of these I get to…and how many of these I’ll like as much as the various editors think I should.

I’ll Never Tell by Catherine McKenzie

Summary: “Twenty years ago, Amanda Holmes was found bludgeoned in a rowboat at the MacAllister family’s Camp Macaw. No one was ever charged with the crime. Now, after their parents’ sudden deaths, the MacAllister siblings return to camp to read the will and decide what to do with the prime real estate the camp occupies. However, the will stipulates that until they unravel the mystery of what happened to Amanda, they can’t settle the estate. Any one of them could have done it, and each one is holding a piece of the puzzle. Will they work together to finally discover the truth, or will their secrets finally tear the family apart?”

Sounds like a perfect summer read to me!

Searching for Sylvie Lee by Jean Kwok

Summary: “Sylvie, the beautiful, brilliant, successful older daughter of the Lee family, flies to the Netherlands for one final visit with her dying grandmother—and then vanishes. Amy, the sheltered baby of the Lee family, is too young to remember a time when her parents were newly immigrated. Timid and shy, Amy has always looked up to her sister, the fierce and fearless protector who showered her with unconditional love. But what happened to Sylvie? Amy and her parents are distraught and desperate for answers. Sylvie has always looked out for them. Now, it’s Amy’s turn to help. Terrified yet determined, Amy retraces her sister’s movements, flying to the last place Sylvie was seen. But instead of simple answers, she discovers something much more valuable: the truth. Sylvie, the golden girl, kept painful secrets . . . secrets that will reveal more about Amy’s complicated family—and herself—than she ever could have imagined.”

Suspense, immigrant narrative—this books has all the right elements for me!

Magic for Liars by Sarah Bailey

Summary: “When a gruesome murder is discovered at The Osthorne Academy of Young Mages, where her estranged twin sister teaches Theoretical Magic, reluctant detective Ivy Gamble is pulled into the world of untold power and dangerous secrets. She will have to find a murderer and reclaim her sister—without losing herself.”

This sounds like a fun, light enough of a read.

Lock Every Door by Riley Sager

Summary: “No visitors. No nights spent away from the apartment. No disturbing the other residents, all of whom are rich or famous or both. These are the only rules for Jules Larsen’s new job as an apartment sitter at the Bartholomew, one of Manhattan's most high-profile and mysterious buildings. Recently heartbroken and just plain broke, Jules is taken in by the splendor of her surroundings and accepts the terms, ready to leave her past life behind.

As she gets to know the residents and staff of the Bartholomew, Jules finds herself drawn to fellow apartment sitter Ingrid, who comfortingly reminds her of the sister she lost eight years ago. When Ingrid confides that the Bartholomew is not what it seems and the dark history hidden beneath its gleaming facade is starting to frighten her, Jules brushes it off as a harmless ghost story . . . until the next day, when Ingrid disappears.

Searching for the truth about Ingrid’s disappearance, Jules digs deeper into the Bartholomew's sordid past and into the secrets kept within its walls. What she discovers pits Jules against the clock as she races to unmask a killer, expose the building’s hidden past, and escape the Bartholomew before her temporary status becomes permanent.”

This sounds hella intriguing! Can’t wait to read this one!

Never Have I Ever by Joshilyn Jackson

Summary: “Amy Whey is proud of her ordinary life and the simple pleasures that come with it—teaching diving lessons, baking cookies for new neighbors, helping her best friend, Charlotte, run their local book club. Her greatest joy is her family: her devoted professor husband, her spirited fifteen-year-old stepdaughter, her adorable infant son. And, of course, the steadfast and supportive Charlotte. But Amy’s sweet, uncomplicated life begins to unravel when the mysterious and alluring Angelica Roux arrives on her doorstep one book club night.

Sultry and magnetic, Roux beguiles the group with her feral charm. She keeps the wine flowing and lures them into a game of spilling secrets. Everyone thinks it’s naughty, harmless fun. Only Amy knows better. Something wicked has come her way—a she-devil in a pricey red sports car who seems to know the terrible truth about who she is and what she once did.

When they’re alone, Roux tells her that if she doesn’t give her what she asks for, what she deserves, she’s going to make Amy pay for her sins. One way or another.

To protect herself and her family and save the life she’s built, Amy must beat the devil at her own clever game, matching wits with Roux in an escalating war of hidden pasts and unearthed secrets. Amy knows the consequences if she can’t beat Roux. What terrifies her is everything she could lose if she wins.”

This one had me at the mention of book club shenanigans.

Fleishman is in Trouble by Taffy Brodesser-Akner

Summary: “Toby Fleishman thought he knew what to expect when he and his wife of almost fifteen years separated: weekends and every other holiday with the kids, some residual bitterness, the occasional moment of tension in their co-parenting negotiations. He could not have predicted that one day, in the middle of his summer of sexual emancipation, Rachel would just drop their two children off at his place and simply not return. He had been working so hard to find equilibrium in his single life. The winds of his optimism, long dormant, had finally begun to pick up. Now this.

As Toby tries to figure out where Rachel went, all while juggling his patients at the hospital, his never-ending parental duties, and his new app-assisted sexual popularity, his tidy narrative of the spurned husband with the too-ambitious wife is his sole consolation. But if Toby ever wants to truly understand what happened to Rachel and what happened to his marriage, he is going to have to consider that he might not have seen things all that clearly in the first place.”

This sounds like a fun piece of family satire. What’s not to like about that.

Lady in the Lake by Laura Lippman

Summary: “In 1966, Baltimore is a city of secrets that everyone seems to know—everyone, that is, except Madeline “Maddie” Schwartz. Last year, she was a happy, even pampered housewife. This year, she’s bolted from her marriage of almost twenty years, determined to make good on her youthful ambitions to live a passionate, meaningful life.

Maddie wants to matter, to leave her mark on a swiftly changing world. Drawing on her own secrets, she helps Baltimore police find a murdered girl—assistance that leads to a job at the city’s afternoon newspaper, the Star. Working at the newspaper offers Maddie the opportunity to make her name, and she has found just the story to do it: a missing woman whose body was discovered in the fountain of a city park lake.

Cleo Sherwood was a young African-American woman who liked to have a good time. No one seems to know or care why she was killed except Maddie—and the dead woman herself. Maddie’s going to find the truth about Cleo’s life and death. Cleo’s ghost, privy to Maddie’s poking and prying, wants to be left alone.

Maddie’s investigation brings her into contact with people that used to be on the periphery of her life—a jewelry store clerk, a waitress, a rising star on the Baltimore Orioles, a patrol cop, a hardened female reporter, a lonely man in a movie theater. But for all her ambition and drive, Maddie often fails to see the people right in front of her. Her inability to look beyond her own needs will lead to tragedy and turmoil for all sorts of people—including the man who shares her bed, a black police officer who cares for Maddie more than she knows.”

I love Ms. Lippman’s work so I’m excited for this one.

Strangers and Cousins by Leah Hager Cohen

“In the seemingly idyllic town of Rundle Junction, Bennie and Walter are preparing to host the wedding of their eldest daughter Clem. A marriage ceremony at their beloved, rambling home should be the happiest of occasions, but Walter and Bennie have a secret. A new community has moved to Rundle Junction, threatening the social order and forcing Bennie and Walter to confront uncomfortable truths about the lengths they would go to to maintain harmony.

Meanwhile, Aunt Glad, the oldest member of the family, arrives for the wedding plagued by long-buried memories of a scarring event that occurred when she was a girl in Rundle Junction. As she uncovers details about her role in this event, the family begins to realize that Clem's wedding may not be exactly what it seemed. Clever, passionate, artistic Clem has her own agenda. What she doesn't know is that by the end, everyone will have roles to play in this richly imagined ceremony of familial connection-a brood of quirky relatives, effervescent college friends, ghosts emerging from the past, a determined little mouse, and even the very group of new neighbors whose presence has shaken Rundle Junction to its core.”

What a promising family saga!

Bunny by Mona Awad

“Samantha Heather Mackey couldn't be more of an outsider in her small, highly selective MFA program at New England's Warren University. A scholarship student who prefers the company of her dark imagination to that of most people, she is utterly repelled by the rest of her fiction writing cohort--a clique of unbearably twee rich girls who call each other "Bunny," and seem to move and speak as one.

But everything changes when Samantha receives an invitation to the Bunnies' fabled "Smut Salon," and finds herself inexplicably drawn to their front door--ditching her only friend, Ava, in the process. As Samantha plunges deeper and deeper into the Bunnies' sinister yet saccharine world, beginning to take part in the ritualistic off-campus "Workshop" where they conjure their monstrous creations, the edges of reality begin to blur. Soon, her friendships with Ava and the Bunnies will be brought into deadly collision.”

Whoa, satirical work set in Britain? When can I start?!

How Could She by Lauren Mechling

Summary: “After a devastating break-up with her fiancé, Geraldine is struggling to get her life back on track in Toronto. Her two old friends, Sunny and Rachel, left ages ago for New York, where they've landed good jobs, handsome husbands, and unfairly glamorous lives (or at least so it appears to Geraldine). Sick of watching from the sidelines, Geraldine decides to force the universe to give her the big break she knows she deserves, and moves to New York City. 

As she zigzags her way through the downtown art scene and rooftop party circuit, she discovers how hard it is to find her footing in a world of influencers and media darlings. Meanwhile, Sunny's life as an It Girl watercolorist is not nearly as charmed as it seemed to Geraldine from Toronto. And Rachel is trying to keep it together as a new mom, writer, and wife--how is it that she was more confident and successful at twenty-five than in her mid-thirties? Perhaps worst of all, why are Sunny and Rachel--who've always been suspicious of each other--suddenly hanging out without Geraldine?”

A story about female friendship in a high powered, high pressure media world? Sign me up.

Any of these on your list this summer? Share your picks!

How American Sign Language is Making Me a Better Writer

I began my ASL journey for a very personal reason—I wanted to learn this language for someone dear to me. It wasn’t meant to be something I was doing for myself but… Perhaps it’s a symptom of selfishness or some kind of egotism but somewhere along the way that’s exactly what this little exercise slowly morphed into. Two years worth of college classes have become a refuge of sorts of me. I’m a writer so there’s no surprise there, I guess: any chance I get to escape into another world, I’ll take it. This was not different: a college class with so many characters to study, a culture and a language so nuanced, it makes you reexamine all your word choices. What better exercise for an author?! And what a fabulous reminder of just how much I love learning, in general.

I’m no stranger to translation work but translating a verbal language to a visual one was not an easy transition for me. I spoke about this in my post a year ago, when I’d completed two semesters of ASL. The word “glossing” was thrown around a lot back then, going for the meaning and all that jazz, but it was a hard concept for me. It wasn’t until ASL 3 that I had my proverbial “lightbulb moment.” The way my professor put it, we aren’t looking for a verbatim translation because some concepts may not exist in ASL (or in any other language you’re interpreting). What you do is try to figure out what the meaning of the phrase is and then ask yourself how can you rephrase it in a way that you can actually communicate (as in sign). BOOM. This is what my rigid brain needed to hear.

Here are some examples from my ASL 3 and 4 finals to illustrate:

For my ASL 3 final, we got to interpret a dialogue from a film. Because I was surrounded with college-aged kids twice a week and the very fact had me reminiscing about my own college years, I picked a movie I associate so deeply with those late teens/early 20s—Bridget Jones’ Diary. Here is an excerpt from my “gloss”:

(Bridget) WAIT…MUST SAY SORRY...PAST D-A-N-I-E-L (point) SAY YOU SEDUCE HIS FIANCÉE…BROKENHEARTED  

(Mark) NO (nod-) OPPOSITE…PAST MY WIFE…MY HEART (soul)

(Bridget) SORRY (nod+)…NOW UNDERSTAND (nod+) HE (CL: 1) COME NEAR YOU ACT WEIRD++ BEAT HIM HARD… GOOD JOB (nod+)

Here is the original text for reference:

Bridget: Listen, uh…I owe you an apology about Daniel. He said that you ran off with his fiancee…and left him broken hearted, he said.

Marc: Ah. No, it was the other way around. It was my wife…my heart.

Bridget: Sorry. That's why you always acted so strangely around him...and beat him to a pulp, quite rightly. Well done.

As you can tell, everything is different: word order, the use of tenses, the little symbols meant to help another interpreter sign exactly the way you’d scripted it etc. I couldn’t literally sign “the other way around” because those words stringed together like that would make no sense in ASL. So I asked myself—what does that phrase mean in English and how can I sign that. Marc obviously wasn’t trying to point to “another way around” direction-wise. Voila—”OPPOSITE.” It sounds simple but let me tell you, it was not easy arriving at this “lightbulb moment.” It was no an easy step to go from “but it says ‘ran off with his fiancee’, why can’t I just say that?!” to "‘SEDUCE HIS FIANCEE is literally what that means and makes way more sense than literally signing "‘run.’”

Here is another example; this one from my ASL 4 final, where we had to interpret a song. I wanted to interpret a song by Noa and Mira Awad called, “There Must Be Another Way.” It’s a song with a wonderful and simple message of peace and coexistence between Israelis and Palestinians. The song is in three language and I only know one of them so that was one additional layer of difficulty for me. What can I say, I love a challenge. My friend Mira (whom I interviewed last May) was kind enough to translate the Arabic and the Hebrew for me, and I interpreted from English to ASL. Here is an excerpt:

English:

And when I cry, I cry for both of us

My pain has no name

And when I cry, I cry to the merciless sky and say

There must be another way

There must be another way

ASL:

CRY   HEARTBREAK   UNITED

HEARTBREAK LABEL WHAT   NOTHING

CRY (role shift) REQUEST UNIVERSE

DO BETTER MUST

ACTIONS CHANGE MUST

Signing “there must be another way” literally would imply that a new geographical direction was sought. That’s not what the song is about. We’re talking about changing actions, doing better as people, so that’s what it is when translated to ASL. As for crying for “both of us,” what’s meant is that the two people are bound together by this conflict and that the tribulations the two suffer are heartbreaking no matter who is suffering physical pain at any one particular moment. ”HEARTBREAK LABEL WHAT NOTHING”—the pain has no name. This is me, delivering my final project for a grade (I got an A!): Marina’s ASL4 Final

These projects were so rewarding and educational for me. They pushed me beyond my comfort zone, made me think instead of blindingly delivering literal words, context be damned. Now that I am done with my coursework at my local college (only four levels are available here), I am glossing songs and monologues on my own for practice as I look for a place where I would be able to continue my studies. Let’s not kid ourselves—I am nowhere near fluent, especially receptively, but expressively I’ve grown so much by doing this. And the skill translates back into English, miraculously enough, making me a more thoughtful writer and speaker (or so I hope). Word choices are that much more careful now: I ask myself, always, what it is I am trying to say and what is the best way to actually say it. I am so excited to continue on this journey. I love learning new things (frankly, I love school!), and to feel tangible results is exhilarating. I don’t want to stop so expect more videos:)